"GROWING UP I'M GOING TO MAKE IT"
So last night Lynn told me I need to help Meg grow up. I need to teach her how to take care of herself and that I have done to much for her. It's time to let go and let her grow into a beautiful young lady. He then told me I do way to much for her that she should be learning to do on her own. After a night of very little sleep (because I know he is right just don't tell him) and going over how I can talk to her and tell her it's time to do things on her own. This morning I talked to her about how it's time to learn to do things and take care of herself on her own. After we both cried for a few minutes we came to a understanding. She doesn't want to grow up and do it on her own, I don't want her to grow up and do it on her own, but we both know it's time and that dad (Lynn) is right. She is my baby girl I love dressing her up and doing her hair, she loves me doing it just as much. Well, starting this Friday and every other day she is going to dress herself without my opinion or help and do her hair. It's baby steps people for both of us, I am showing her how to do it and make it look nice and she even cracked a smile. All in all she left for school smiling and even gave me a kiss (which means she forgives me), and I am not teary eyed anymore. I think, I know I'm going to have a great day!!
Side note: Thank you honey, I know last night I was not very happy with you telling me this. In fact I was very mad and upset that you would even bring something like this up to me. How dare you say I need to stop taking care of my babies, that's the only thing I'm good at. But in the end your right, I was wrong, so thank you for helping me and Meg start taking baby steps to growing up...
So last night Lynn told me I need to help Meg grow up. I need to teach her how to take care of herself and that I have done to much for her. It's time to let go and let her grow into a beautiful young lady. He then told me I do way to much for her that she should be learning to do on her own. After a night of very little sleep (because I know he is right just don't tell him) and going over how I can talk to her and tell her it's time to do things on her own. This morning I talked to her about how it's time to learn to do things and take care of herself on her own. After we both cried for a few minutes we came to a understanding. She doesn't want to grow up and do it on her own, I don't want her to grow up and do it on her own, but we both know it's time and that dad (Lynn) is right. She is my baby girl I love dressing her up and doing her hair, she loves me doing it just as much. Well, starting this Friday and every other day she is going to dress herself without my opinion or help and do her hair. It's baby steps people for both of us, I am showing her how to do it and make it look nice and she even cracked a smile. All in all she left for school smiling and even gave me a kiss (which means she forgives me), and I am not teary eyed anymore. I think, I know I'm going to have a great day!!
Side note: Thank you honey, I know last night I was not very happy with you telling me this. In fact I was very mad and upset that you would even bring something like this up to me. How dare you say I need to stop taking care of my babies, that's the only thing I'm good at. But in the end your right, I was wrong, so thank you for helping me and Meg start taking baby steps to growing up...
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